![]() I learned about this from the hero instinct. As “outdated” as it may seem, men still want to be the saviors. You see, for guys, it’s all about triggering their inner hero. 4)Trigger his hero instinct but hold the urge to give him more than what he’s giving you You might sabotage your blossoming relationship. Something more than that would make him think you’re playing with him…which you are, so please don’t get caught. This is something that men get furious about because they don’t want to be manipulated. Just do it sparingly though, and playfully. This makes you hard to read and hard to predict, which will make him want you more. Teasing will make him feel that he’s already “got you” that’s why when you stop doing it, he’d think you’re hard to get. In other words, make him feel like he’s just a good addition to your already full life…as it should be. He should be the icing to your cake, the cherry to your ice cream. Just don’t be glued to your phone all the time and instead get busy with your life. We’re not saying you should let him wait hours if you really feel like talking to him. If you’re online all the damn time and you send replies in less than two seconds, then even if he’s totally into you, he’ll slowly lose attraction. If you aren’t, fake it til you make it…then start getting busy. You’re a busy woman who has things to accomplish in her day. 2) Don’t reply to messages too fastĪgain, this is a way to show you’re not too available. It can make him want you more because you have your own thing. And if he does, well…you didn’t really lose a high-value guy.īut the thing is, it can actually do the opposite. Trust me, he won’t grab the next girl just because you’re not free on a Friday night. I know you’re very willing to ditch your friends over this guy but don’t do it. You have to show the man that you’re not just waiting around for your dates because you actually have a life. If you say yes all the time, then you’re too available. Ways to play “hard to get” the right way 1) Say “NO” to some dates I know it’s quite sneaky but it’s a proven tactic to make you more irresistible…if you do it right. The goal is to let his feelings “marinate” and to increase his attraction so that he’d see you as the one for him. You’ve already won his interest, do not kill it by being too obvious that you’re playing hard to get! The best way to make sure you get the result that you want is by being subtle. ![]() Since they’re young, they’ve dealt with a lot of women who do this trick and they can detect it oh so easily.Īnd when they’re 100% sure you’re playing hard to get, they won’t chase you…they’ll probably give you a taste of your medicine then ditch you. You see, men are not as dense as you might think. Instead of it working in your favor, it can do the exact opposite. Playing hard to get can backfire, especially if you don’t do it well. Playing hard to get works because he feels like he has won the jackpot when you finally decide to accept him into your life. It’s like you’re telling him that he has something that other men don’t have. If you are “pickier” and less available with how you approach men, however, your relationship will feel like a true achievement. Men like it when someone likes them back, but if they get the impression that you’re “too easy”, they won’t feel as valued.Īfter all, if they didn’t have to work hard to get your attention, then what of other men? Why play hard to get?Ī study conducted by the University of Rochester indicated that men will put more value in you if they worked hard for your affections. In this article, let me show you how to play hard-to-get the right way so you can make any man who’s slightly interested go crazy for you. You see, being too available and ready too soon kills attraction. When it comes to seduction, men generally show off, and women play hard to get. We’re no different than a peacock who spreads his feathers to attract a female’s attention. ![]() Let’s get real: we’re all playing games…at least at the start. Playing hard to get might seem like a total BS, but sometimes you have to play hard-to-get to get the man. ![]()
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